When I walk away from Kevin I feel re-calibrated. I come into the conversation thinking and perceiving one way and I leave, thinking and perceiving a different way. When I leave I feel Inspired, inspired to pursue the unknown. I feel courageous and full of thoughts, and meaning.
So how do you want people to feel when they leave a conversation? If you want people to feel adventurous, than one must become adventurous. Who you are, transcends into who they are, amplifying all that they are.